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d <d6606@bellatlantic.net>
capitol heights, md,

Hi Monte. I am Patricia from Columbus. I spoke with you on the radio this past Saturday. I look forward to hearing from you, again!

Patricia <Gloria2patri@aol.com>
Favorite Talk Show Host: xxxx
Show Air Time: 5:00p.m.
Show Topic: Black America
Station Phone: 614-
Columbus, OH,

READ THIS NOTICE CAREFULLY, AS IT CONCERNS YOU! THIS IS BREAKING NEWS! RING THE ALARM! CALL OUT THE DOGS! TELL THE PRESIDENT! CALL YO MOMMA! THE GAMES BLACK WOMEN PLAY HAVE BEEN EXPOSED! YES! IT’S TRUE! THE JIG IS UP! GAME OVER! END OF STORY! THE BOOK THAT DESCRIBES IN DETAIL THE CONSPIRACY TO BRING DOWN GOOD BLACK MEN IN AMERICA! BLACK WOMEN ARE IN BIG TROUBLE BECAUSE NOW THE WHOLE WORLD KNOWS THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH BLACK WOMEN! So now, ask yourself; WHAT’S WRONG WITH BLACK WOMEN? The new book by the controversial African American writer Monte Maddox! Why do black men date white women? Why is it so hard to find a good black woman? Why do black women prefer thugs, playas, and ballers? Why do black women diss and ignore intelligent, well-spoken black men? After years of battling censors, politically correct publishers, and multitudes of angry AFRICAN AMERICAN females, author Monte Maddox has done the impossible! He has signed a contract for the worldwide distribution of his shocking, volatile, steam rolling expose': WHAT'S WRONG WITH BLACK WOMEN! Discussed on the Internet for more than five years, What's Wrong With Black Women? is now going to press! Oh My! The forces of evil tried to stop it, but ya can't stop the bum rush baby! 1STBOOKS LIBRARY-A PUBLISHER WITH BACKBONE! What's Wrong with Black Women? is one black man's story of the seemingly "secret" civil war brewing between black men and black women in this country. After years of research on the Internet, and a life time of varied experiences with black women, the author Monte Maddox, presents a non-stop, Hip-Hop, in your face rollercoaster ride. Maddox plows through the myth of "no good black men" like a truck in a glass factory, and points the blaming finger back at those he sees as the culprits of black romantic discord: bad black women! The faint of heart or ultra sensitive would do well to avoid this frenetic mixture of rage, passion, street-life observations, and at times, tragic revelations. No punches are pulled, no subject is held back or avoided! Maddox' sincere and brutal frankness cuts through the reader like a chainsaw through Swiss cheese! No nerve is left untouched, no emotion is left unexplored, no prisoners are taken. This is a trip through middle class black America, the ghetto, and the world of cyberspace. Weaving the harshness of street life with the fantasy of the computer world, Maddox thoroughly examines what he sees as the major threat to the black family unit: psychotic, staunchly religious, black women. Through the book, the writer is taken on a journey through Maddox' life experiences with black women of all shapes, sizes, colors and mentalities. He finds in his book that far too many of these women have negative attitudes about life in general, and black men in particular. Maddox recounts many of the meetings in explosive detail, with a starkness and profane humor that will leave you gasping for air! This book is a picture of black life rarely seen by the public. Maddox examines black Greek organizations, notable black institutions and personalities, and asks what these entities have done to negatively impact black women in this country. Maddox also gives us his recipe for making "bad" black women into "good" black women. Political correctness has no place in the pages of this torrential downpour of matter-of-fact straight talk about bad black women! If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen. If there's a "kitchen" of controversy about black women, What's Wrong with Black Women? is cooking up one heck of a main course! It's one book that surely would never be in Oprah's book of the month club! WHAT'S WRONG WITH BLACK WOMEN? Will soon be available from 1stbooks Library Bloomington, Indiana, USA 1stbooks Library, http:// WWW.1stbooks.com, or toll free 1-888-519-5121 E-Mail inquiries regarding author interviews, purchases, preview copies and information for the media: jthomas@1stbooks.com Comments for the author: diablobanyon@hotmail.com Book web site: http://members.tripod.com/diablobanyon CALL OR E-MAIL 1STBOOKS LIBRARY AND RESERVE YOUR COPY NOW! Or, if you can’t wait any longer….this book is ALREADY AVAILABLE AS AN ELECTRONIC BOOK AND DOWLOADABLE FROM THE 1STBOOKS WEB SITE! NOW! RIGHT NOW! Get your advance copy today and see what the fuss is all about! Hurry before the politically correct media and crazed African American females get the book and put their spin on it! Read the TRUTH before someone takes it away from you! READ IT FOR YOURSELF! BELIEVE IT! GET IT NOW! BEFORE THEY TRY TO BAN IT AGAIN! Please Note: THE AUTHOR OF THIS BOOK, MONTE MADDOX, IS A NEW YORK NATIVE. THE THINGS THIS AFRICAN AMERICAN WRITER HAS TO SAY ABOUT BLACK WOMEN IS NOT FLATTERING, TO SAY THE LEAST! CONTROVERSIAL? OH YEAH! THE BOOK IS BEING PUBLISHED BY FIRSTBOOKS.COM, AND WILL BE AVAILABLE AT AMAZON.COM, BARNES AND NOBLE.COM, AND SOON CAN BE ORDERED THROUGH ANY BOOKSTORE IN THE COUNTRY. PLEASE VISIT THE FIRSTBOOKS.COM WEB SITE FOR ORDERING INFORMATION. MEDIA OUTLETS SHOULD CONTACT 1ST BOOKS FOR PREVIEW COPIES AND AUTHOR INTERVIEWS. THIS IS EXPLOSIVE STUFF, AND WILL AFFECT THE BLACK COMMUNITIES ALL OVER THE US, WITHOUT A DOUBT! WOW! PLUG THIS INTO YOUR BROWSER TO READ THE IN –DEPTH ARTICLE! : http://www.mississippilink.com/pv/pageview.pl?section=hotstories&newsfile=n200209264.txt THE SH$# IS ABOUT TO HIT DA FAN!

MONTE <DIABLOBANYON@HOTMAIL.COM>
BROOKLYN, NY,

I must admit that I don't listen to the radio very frequently, at least not in the MD/DC area, mainly due to the fact that I attend school in North Carolina. But while working in the library at my college the other day I came across an article in the most recent "Jet" magazine, and it quoted Audrey Chapman, whom I understand is an author and a radio show host. The article, titled "Why Men Wait Longer to Get Married," put forth research recently done at Rutgers that sought to understand why it is that men just don't seem to want to settle down. Now, this may not seem outrageous to anyone else, but my reading of what Chapman was saying the cause of men's unwillingness to wed was because women - WOMEN - are "making it too easy for men not to commit to marriage" by giving away sex. Not only is this taking women's liberation back generations, it is also implying once again, as it has been implied throughout history, that women are to blame for the male of the species various infidelities or, in this case, inablilty to "settle down." Chapman goes on to explain that it is, at least in part, the fault of Black MOTHERS that men don't settle down. Apparently, it is again solely on the shoulders of women to make men grow up to be responsible husbands and fathers. All this GRANTED that women are only on the lookout to make men settle down in the first place, an assumption, though somewhat founded, I might contest. I for one do not appreciate having it be MY responsibilty as a female to ensure that men get over their various insecurities, wait for them to be financially secure, and then provie their children with the model of what men sould be. That is a ludicrous assumption to make, especially coming from a woman. This entire article is wrought with the most stereotypical and, for lack of a better word, traditional attitudes that women are to be responsible for ensuring that the culture continues the way "it should," and to blame when it doesn't. Moreover, the article is implying that women's sexuality is in large part to blame for the mess they themselves are in, the mess of not having a husband. Please keep in mind when thinking about this that gender is not such a simple thing, but neither is the historical and cultural roots that we are dealing with in a discussion such as this. But the fact remains, blaming women is going to further no cause but the further degradation of women. I'm simply dissapointed that that is being reinforced by a woman. We obviosly have more to learn here.

Yarrow
Brookeville, MD,

I'm confused. I have been knowing my friend now for 6 months. When we met we were very in-love I assume. He went away for two months for training. We talked every day, atleast twice. When he came back, he continued training for another two months. He still treated me the same as he did before his left. The only difference is we don't have sex as often as we did before. I asked him was he still attracted to me, or what's wrong. He said his training was very pressuring and stressful. So I said O.K. I can understand that. But now that his stressful training is over, he seem as if he is not interested in sex. I know sex is not all that important. I am not going to keep asking him whats up. Why don't he just tell me he just wants to be friends. That is what I feel he might want. I have told him if he is having 2nd thoughts about our relationship to let me know. I love him very much. I don't know how much longer I can wait to be intimate with him. I don't see him that often because of his working hours and all of the security around the nation is going on. I really don't think he is messing around, I'm not in denial about that. What should I do? Help please.

Robin <rcunningha@atfhq.atf.treas.gov>
Washington, DC,

Not to dog Black men - but why is it that it appears that White professional men will date and marry a "non-professional" white woman, but a black professional black man seems to be reluctant to do so. I am an Administrative Assistant, and I have been "look down on" once a Black man (with a "little money")finds out my occupation. I can meet a man, have a hour or two of great conversation, but once he finds out that I am an Admin. Assistant, their attitude changes. I am tired of my "white" colleagues talk about their homes and trips they take and I am struggling to make ends meet. Not that I am looking for someone to take care of me, but it would be nice to know that there are Black men out there who are willing to be the breadwinner. What I'm finding is that Black men that have a "little money" will only date a Black woman who is also in the same income bracket. Wh

Vanessa Armstrong <Armstrongconn@yahoo.com>
Favorite Talk Show Host: Audrey Chapman, Tom Joyner
Lanham, MD,

Why are there some women that still think that getting pregnant is going to help them get a man? Or that bringing a child into a developing relationship is going to mean success? And before anyone goes off the deep end about what I am writing, over the last twenty years, there is not a single man that woke up and made the decision that he was going to be a father! The only decisions we make is to, pursue a woman, have an erection, and ejaculate! Every other decision that is made after that, is out of our hands. So when these "females", then get upset because the guy(who has been saying all along don't get pregnant) is not as happy as she is about her becoming a mother, well what does she expect? The guy said the same thing that the women's movement has been saying for quite some time(your body, your selve's) than be responsible for your decision to become a mother! And stop using children as pawns in your sick games!

Jon <jonbb20@hotmail.com>
Favorite Talk Show Host: Jean Ross
Show Air Time: 10-12 noon
Show Topic: Relationships
Station Phone: ??
Atlanta, Ga,

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Favorite Talk Show Host: make hiller
Show Air Time: 8:00-1:00
Show Topic: take the news from a lightskin person ponite of view
Station Phone: none
newyork, ny,

why are there not any lightskin people intv like afamily 2lightskin people in love and a family with lightskin kids just like the darkskin family why dont you see our family on tv.why do lightskin have to be with a darkskin people to be somebaody on tv and in video why is that. the is a new racesim darkskin people are being races fo no have a lightskin family on tv. why dont the help us get a tv show with a lightskin family on it lgihtskin people help darkskin people for yaers ahy want hey help us.

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Favorite Talk Show Host: ghf
Show Air Time: ghf
Show Topic: ghfg
Station Phone: ghfgh
none, nonm,

So I see Dr. Chapman has another book signing. I'm sure it's going to cost something, because this stuff is very profitable. Don't believe me? Try going to your local bookstore and see all the drama books.Most of the titles are funny to read. Most of the subjects are nothing new to us, materialism, sex, betrayal,ect...you know the rest. And the movies are equal to this crap. Movies like "Baby Boy",and any movie starring Vivica Fox or Whur's Monique, have everything related to these type of books out here now.

Brodie
Laurel, MD,

DR. CHAPMANS BOOK SIGNING: Today(7/20/2001) the Radio Diary attended Dr. Audrey Chapman book signing in the Nations Capitol. Dr. Chapman was on location at B Dalton book store located inside Union Station (the train station). The title of her new book (and I predict that it will be a best seller) is "SEVEN ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENTS FOR FINDING A LOVING MAN"..Fellow, the women turned out and bought this book. I must also admit that the Radio Diary bought a few copies also. I met some of Dr.Chapmans fans and they also seemed to welcome the book with an open mind. Only time will tell..RADIODIARY@AOL.COM

Your Personal Radio Diary <radiodiary@aol.com>
Favorite Talk Show Host: Dr. Audrey Chapman
Show Topic: Dr. Chapmans Book Signing
Washington, DC,

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test <radiodiary@aol.com>
Favorite Talk Show Host: test
Show Air Time: test
Show Topic: test
Station Phone: test
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Enjoy listen to morning show from 6:00am until 10:00am week days they help me get my day stated with a big laugh in the morining along with being happy to see another day. Audrey Chapman, keeps me going, keeping me in check with my own relationships being that am a single female. Keep up the good work all of you, hope the morning show comes up with a great name. God Bless All of You with your hard work.

Ettyce P. James <Ettyce_P. James@NBC.Gov>
Favorite Talk Show Host: Monika, TC and John / Audrey Chapman
Show Air Time: Week Days6:00am until 10:00am / 9:00am Sat.
Show Topic: What every they come up with / Relationships
Station Phone: 202-432-9487
Washington, DC,
Friday, June 08, 2001 at 13:56:47 (EDT)

****Today’s Relationships by Russell Price Jr*** I was out and about this weekend and ran into Russell Price Jr, Editor of Washington Business Guide. Russell is well know in the Washington,DC area and does a cable TV show on relationships. Here is a sample of his recent stories”BEGIN QUOTE.. Topic: IT WAS JUST ONE KISS! QUESTION: Last week I was at a party where a lot of old friends were around—but not my husband. I let this guy I know kiss me. That’s all it was, but somehow it feels like an earth-shattering event. Should I tell my husband? What if I don’t and he finds out? What If we we’re playing on of those games couples play where you ask things like “You’ve never kissed anyone else, have you? Should I tell him then? ANSWER: “A number of husbands asked for their take on your dilemma gave the following answer: Since it was just a kiss, and since you apparently aren’t doing it every other weekend, don’t tell your husband. If you confessed, they all said, you’d be destroying his trust in you forever over one fleeting, spontaneous (and possibly drunken) kiss. While they were explaining all this, they kept cracking jokes , the nervous kind you make when you’re glad the problem is somebody else’s. This poll, I realize, makes it sound as if you were off the hook. But you’re not. There’s always a rub, a repercussion, when you hurt someone you love. If you decide not to tell your husband, you have to live with the secret (harder that it sounds but you’re discovering that). You’ll have to lie if he ever asks you during this game you two play, as hard as it sounds. And you’re going to have to live with the niggling doubts: I stole a kiss, is there a chance he has too? Or is about to? Will I do it again? Am I too selfish to be a good wife? Why did I want to kiss someone else in the first place? (Why did you? This you must think about.) As for whether you’re able to be a good wife, well, greater tests likely lie ahead: Money will be tight, someone will be sick, some alluring guy will hit on you at another party—and this time you’ll get your chance to say NO. Marriage is a hard gig. So, is fidelity. So accept that and go kiss your husband. That’s your road back, isn’t it?”End Quote. Russell Price can be reached at (washinfo1@aol.com) Russell Price will be bringing his Entertainment Show to the radio diary web site. What do you think about his Advice?RADIODIARY@AOL.COM

Your Personal Radio Diary <radiodiary@aol.com>
Show Topic: Russell Price Jr. Relationship Show on Cable TV
Washington, DC,
Sunday, February 25, 2001 at 12:25:40 (EST)

Polygamy is the practice of a man having more than one wife. Polyandry is the practice of a woman having more than one husband.

Jocko The Monkey Grinder

Thursday, February 22, 2001 at 09:21:32 (EST)

**What Is Polgamy?** The state or practice of having more than one wife or husban at a time? Polgamy has been practiced throughout the world since the inception of man. In Germany Polgamy was practiced during a period of War when the husbands of women were killed and their was a shortage of men. In ancient Egypt there was a law whereby the husband was obligated by what is know as Jehan Sedat’s reformist law which required a husband to inform his wives that they have co-wives. In Quranic text regulating polygamy, we see that there is a reference to “just treatment” of the husband wife relationships. So, let’s say for the sake of argument that the laws of the United States government would allow polgamy according to Quranic text. Then each black man who wants to have more than one wife would have to provide each spouse with equal comfort (i.e., each wife would have to have their own house, own car, own visa card,) and the list goes on and on and on. So, when the average black man hears the word POLGAMY the word SEX automatically comes to mind. Even if the laws were changed only a few men/women could afford to practice POLGAMY under the guise of the law. I think that blackmen still practice POLGAMY today..it’s called dead beat dads having multiple children out of wedlock.RADIODIARY@AOL.COM

Your Personal Radio Diary <radiodiary@aol.com>
Show Topic: What Is Polgamy?
Washington, DC,
Wednesday, February 21, 2001 at 11:50:05 (EST)

Ms. Chapman, what do you think of polygamy as a viable and alternate lifestyle based on the social conditions of Black people in America?

Jocko The MG

Monday, February 19, 2001 at 18:36:30 (EST)